A happy person is not without sorrow or grief. Happiness is the acceptance of pain, not the lack of it.

Vironika Tugaleva
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Happiness is a state of being. It does not lie in the absence of pain. Neither does happiness lie in avoidance of pain. Happiness lies in acceptance of pain, in understanding that regret is not a manifestation of happiness, that it is the opposite.

In other words, to truly be happy, we must be able to accept that we have made mistakes and learned from them. Otherwise, we will become so wrapped up in our actions, our wrongdoings and our regrets that we have lost sight of the idea of being happy in the first place.

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